The Longest Stay Part:2

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous hand." Isaiah 41:10

     Today was a fun day. The circumstances were incredibly sucky but if I'm going to fly in a private jet I'm going to enjoy every darn minute of it. The flight crew picked me up from the hospital in Las Vegas around 8:30 in the morning. They were extremely nice and one wasn't bad to look at ;) We took an ambulance to the airport and then I was loaded up first class in my fancy jet. It was a super small plane but it was only an hour flight and I got to lay back on a stretcher for it so I can't complain about the leg room. We took off around 9:15ish. A few minutes after take off the oxygen masks fell from the ceiling. Not because anything was wrong but because it was an older plane. I'm not going to lie I questioned my confidence in the small plane when that happened. It was a quick one hour flight into Burbank. We landed and I was loaded into a second ambulance. It took longer to get to the hospital from the airport than it did to fly from Vegas, Thanks LA traffic. 

     We made it to USC, which is a much much larger hospital than my usual one. I was moved into my new temporary home in the 5th floor South ICU. The accommodations here are nowhere near my normal hospital's. There is no couch or large TV and there really isn't room for visitors but I was here to get fixed so I really didn't mind what the room looked like. My wonderful mother, who I will never be able to thank enough, drove out shortly after I got settled in.

     I met with the intensivist that would be in charge of my case. He was nice and asked tons of questions about what we have tried and what they were thinking about trying. Their main goal was to get me off of the epi sooner rather than later so a few hours after I got here we started very slowly titrating back. The next morning I met with the allergist that would be on my case. She has two other mast cell patients she sees, but admitted I was her worst off. She agreed that we needed to get me off of the epi drip and we'd see what we could do from there.

   

 Getting me off of the epi went about to be expected. There were lots of benadryl pushed through my IV so I was constantly tired and napping. IV pushes of benadryl also give me a loopy feeling sometimes so I felt like I was in space most of the time. We were able to get me off of the epi for about 12 hours before I went back into anaphylaxis twice. They reconnected the epi at a low dose until we could figure something else out. This was when I brought the idea of a continuous dyphendyramine infusion to her attention. I had researched it previously and it was brought up in Vegas but it's not widely used or a widely known option. CDI is a continuous benadryl drip instead of epi. The continuous benadryl insures that my mast cells stay calmer. It doesn't cure anything but it greatly reduces the amount of anaphylactic attacks as well as greatly reduces the amount of rescue meds needed. The allergist had never heard of it so she went to work researching it. The next day it was decided that this was indeed going to be my best shot at getting off of the epi drip long term. They started the benadryl drip on Christmas Day and I'm not going to lie it was kind of the best Christmas present ever.

     The world's best mom drove out to LA again to spend Christmas with me and my benadryl! Somehow Santa found me even though I was in a different city! I woke up around 3am and there was a stalking and a Santa gift waiting for me next to my bed! I was completely shocked I wasn't expecting that at all. My momma came down to the hospital and brought lots of activities. I kicked her butt at Rummy, we tried to do a puzzle but I swear it was missing pieces so we gave up on that. The hospital also had a special Christmas dinner of steak and mashed potatoes. It was surprisingly delicious! Somehow my momma managed to make this Christmas special even though I couldn't be home. Hopefully I'll be home soon so we can do Christmas in January! Stay tuned for part III tomorrow! 

With Love, 

Elizabeth 

The Longest Stay Part:1

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 

      I'm not going to lie. There have been times in this last 16 days that I have definitely not felt the power of this bible verse. I had my most scary anaphylactic reaction a few weeks ago. I called 911. I don't remember much else other than the firefighter pulling me from my car and the sudden rush of adrenaline that went through my PICC line shortly after. The rest is gone. I have no memory of the ride to the hospital, I have no memory of the first hour in the trauma room, I have no clue what happened. I just know that when I did start coming back around the ER doctor was trying to place an airway tube. Thankfully; the third round of rescue drugs did their job and I narrowly avoided being intubated. This was the beginning of my longest hospital stay to date. 

   

 That night they put me back on an epi drip and I was admitted into the ICU. This is "normal" I figured I'd be there for a day or two as we backed off the epi drip and I'd be able to go home. That's not what happened though. Day two we tried backing off the epi pretty quickly, I cautioned them against this but they didn't listen. I made it about three hours off the epi drip before I went back into anaphylaxis. It wasn't anywhere near as bad as the day before but my oxygen levels dropped pretty rapidly. They reconnected the epi and gave a nebulized version of epi as well as benadryl. I recovered from this one fairly quickly. While on the epi drip I was still having "leaking reactions" migraines, itching and burning skin, upset stomach, the whole nine yards. These doctors consulted with Dr. Afrin who is a mast cell specialist in New York that has been following my case. He suggested we try an emergency dose of xolair. I had talked to my doctors about xolair previously and we were going to try it but the plan was to wait until after NewYears.

     We were able to get insurance approval for the emergency dose and they administered it on Saturday... It didn't go well. The thought right now is that I reacted to the medication being given to fast and not the actual medication itself. But either way it was a miserable reaction. It started off with the injection site swelling quite a bit and then I broke out in hives and extremely itchy red blotches. I got extremely nauseous and dizzy all at once. My body couldn't figure out if it wanted to heave or pass out. And then the dystonia hit. Dystonia looks exactly like a seizure except I'm "there" for all of it. My eyes are open and I can hear everything but I shake violently and my muscles get so tight and rigid. This freaked the ICU doctors out. They were once again considering intubation because I was having a hard time keeping my oxygen levels up on my own. It took two rounds of epi injection, benadryl, and ativan to calm everything down. It was after this reaction the ICU docs decided I was officially out of their scope of practice. They made the decision to transfer me to USC Keck hospital in Los Angeles. 

    It was definitely not an expected move but a very much necessary one. I was now facing Christmas in the hospital miles away from family. God has an interesting way of working everything out. Stay tuned for part II tomorrow. 

With Love, 

Elizabeth <3 

I'm Just Done Fighting

   

     It's been a minute friends. I have tried to sit down and write several posts but there were just none I was passionate about enough to finish. I'm a bag of mixed emotions right now, and for good reason. I had two wonderful weeks of no issues. There was the occasional ocular migraine, or upset stomach after eating but I went two whole weeks without a hospital admission, without having to use an epi pen, without being stuck at home. And they were a great two weeks, probably one of the best few weeks I've had in over a year. I want to go back to those two weeks.
     Last Sunday I went to church and then went to Subway right after. Subway has always been a safe food for me. I get the same thing every time and never have any issues with it. A few bites in my throat started to feel scratchy and my whole body got hot and itchy. I remember trying to take benadryl but must have slipped into unconsciousness because I came to in the ambulance with the medics trying to start an IV and a needle being stabbed into my arm with more benadryl. They had already given me epi in the shoulder and my oxygen levels came up slowly. It's never a good thing when the fire crew (who has never ran on you) knows who you are because other crews talk about you at the station. They knew not to give me anything else until I woke up and could tell them what I can and cannot have. My body cooperated the rest of the ride. In the ER I had another reaction and another the ER doc said "it's not possible to have that many rebounds" I know better. I've experienced the truth of multiple anaphylactic reactions one right after another. They decided to admit me. The attending physician came downstairs and told me there was nothing else they could do for me.. There is they just refuse to consult my specialist. I decided to be discharged that night because there was nothing beneficial for me there if my doctor wasn't willing to actually help me.
     The very next day I started feeling short of breath and it got extremely hard to swallow. I hadn't eaten anything that day so I don't know what could have possibly triggered it, but either way it was happening. I was home alone so I tried to call my mom my phone must not have been working because I tried to call her and my dad and all I got was "Verizon can't complete your call please try again later" so I pushed the "help" button on our GPS app. I don't know what happened after that. I don't know how 911 was called, because it sure wasn't me, but they were. They arrived and I was face first on the floor. Yes, I was at least breathing more than 3 times a minute this time. They loaded me in to the ambulance. A few minutes later the medic looked at me and said "this isn't anxiety is it?" I nodded my head no. He looked at my oxygen level which was now dipping into the 70's. He gave me a round of epi in the shoulder and 50mg of benadryl through my PICC line. I was struggling to breathe my breathing became so labored that I was starting to zone out. He started bagging me, which is basically him breathing for me, and they turned on the lights and sirens. When I got to the ER they immediately decided to admit me.
      9 hours later I was still in the ER, they told me it would be 34 hours before they could get me a bed upstairs. I gave up. I had nothing left to give. I was extremely itchy since the first benadryl wore off so I asked for more. My entire body was red and splotchy and there were hives on my chest. The nurse said she'd be right back with some and I didn't see her for another hour and a half. I decided to sign AMA, against medical advice, and have a friend drive me home. My mind was, and still kind of is, in a dark place. There are still people out there who thinks this is just anxiety or that I'm doing this for attention. That there is no way a 21 year old could be this sick. I can tell you every time I go into anaphylaxis I have to make the decision of staying and fighting or closing my eyes and letting the darkness consume me. I honestly think that's why I've been found unconscious so many times this week. Is I've given up the fight. I don't run to my epi anymore, if I get to it I get to it. I don't stay at home where it's safe anymore and I certainly don't wear my mask outside like I should. I've stopped fighting. I hate saying that out loud but it's true.
     I had a doctor's appointment yesterday to go over lab work. I came back positive for the gene mutation that has been found to cause MCAS, and one of my prostoglandin reports came back 4x over the normal limit. The specialist my doctor was consulting in New York says it's time to switch treatment options. Neither of which I'm thrilled about but one option has an incredible success rate in decreasing anaphylactic reactions from multiple times a week to once every few months. But it's still a newer treatment option in the medical world and all of my doctors are pretty nervous to start it. My take on it is there's no way this option could make anything any worse. Why not just try it? I want nothing more than to go back to school right now. Not even work, I just want to go back to school. Where I can meet other people my own age but I can't right now. I have a dismal quality of life right now. Wouldn't we want to try everything we can to fix that? To make it so I'm not in the hospital multiple times a week? I'm just so frustrated. Doctors are giving up on me, friends are giving up on me, I'm giving up on me.
     So I'm praying for strength and peace. Because no matter how tired I am or frustrated I am God's got it all planned out. He'll put me in the right hands and he'll get this figured out. "Tell everyone who is discouraged, be strong and don't be afraid! God is coming to your rescue." -Isaiah 35:4

With Love,
Elizabeth <3

HOW to Best Help Me In An Emergency Situation

     Everybody lately has been asking me how. How can I best help you. Right now what can help you? With life right now this second how can I help you. The truth is guys when you ask me that... I don't know how. How is such a big word for me that the way I use it in my head I have talked myself right to unconsciousness twice... today alone. Who knows how many times my words in my head have affected this before. But what I have figured out is how you can best help me in the future. When something emergent medically in my life happens I now know what you can do to help me medically! Here's how.
My Thoughts And Anxiety Affects My Health Directly 
I don't know  how everybody else's mind affects them when they're sick. But I'm sick so often my brain is OK with it that I talk to myself the whole time. That to everyone else when I'm in the hospital it doesn't matter what I'm going through but I am the happiest pers

on there. So much so that when I'm hooked up to a breathing machine that is breathing for me so much that I'm happy. And I can't explain that feeling to someone unless you've ever had it happen to you. And I'm okay with that.
When I am Unconscious I Can Hear EVERYTHING you say 
I don't know if you know this if it does 100% so please act like it does. When I am passed out on the side walk so much so that they called a full code on me they started CPR on me I could FEEL it AND HEAR it and still REMEMBER it afterwards so when dealing with emergency situations such as this please keep this in mind when doing things. It will 100% affect me in the long run. So if CPR IS 100% NECESSARY IN THAT MOMENT DO IT!!! Because it will help me positively.
You Are Going To HAVE To Talk Me INTO Things 
If making me feel better is going to influence me taking my epi than please do that. Right now positively impacting my health would be to take epi because I know this. But long term I know that it's not. So please do talk me into things if you think it's necessary no matter how closely you're trying to positively impact me.
I Can't Describe Things To You 
Medically, I know the right words to describe things to you that you understand what's going on to me. Mentally, I have ZERO clue. So when I tell you I have the most severe chest pain I've ever had in my entire life. I know that that is going to get me admitted into the ER. Mentally, I can't describe what that feels like except for where and how much. If you were to ask me where I'll tell you and how much I'll tell you on the pain scale a ten. But mentally you doing know that that means my throat is also extremely itchy and swollen, I'm constantly burping because I'm nauseous, My chest pain is so severe, I can hear, I can talk, I can breathe but I'm still I am unconscious. I can't explain that to anyone and I wish I could. Which is why for so long so many medical professionals have thought I was FAKING being passed out.
Knowing these things I have been surviving for so long I am scared to go to sleep and it is affecting my day to day life. So PLEASE next time you think something emergent is happening like the fact that I am itchy or I tell you I have another life threatening symptom please tell me hey Elizabeth do you feel like you're in anaphylaxis right now. And I say yes please DO something about it and try to talk me through it. Because I may be mad at you for asking when it happens but PLEASE know I will not be mad at you for it later.
But still. Even after saying this I may only need xanex and be 100% FINE living normal life. So when all of these emergency things ARE happening please be the smart one of the situation and say hey maybe all she needs is anxiety medication at a high dose and be fine. With my health I am toeing such a thin flexibly placed line that it is both POSITIVELY AND NEGATIVELY affected my life. And because of this please remember these things when I am struggling symptom wise and look fine and every last medical professional is telling you it's just anxiety because my reality is it probably is JUST anxiety and I am  "over reacting".
I am just now figuring this out. I am struggling so much so physically that no one has pointed it out for days and for the first time I am realizing holy shit. Right now if I were in the hospital maintaining this kind of homeostasis for so long medically I WOULD without a doubt be dead right now because they would be doing CPR on me right now.
I know that freaks everyone out and that makes you scared to be with me alone. Trust me. I get that I am scared to be with me alone to the point I just choose not to sleep because I'm scared. I'm realizing that so much right now that I am contemplating if I were this aware all the time I would be in the hospital in 15 minutes. And that scares me. So if I ever ask you to drive somewhere please know medically I can. Mentally I don't know how I could even survive to get there. Which is how I'm trying to judge getting to places. And that's not fair to anyone. So know if we don't hang out or I bail on plans it's not because I can. Because I can go to work, I can go to Nebraska, I can drive, and cook. But right now I don't think that I will be able to. And that's okay.
Sorry this was such a long one. But thanks for sticking around! I appreciate it. If you ever have any questions on best to help me please ask me. I love educating people about what's going on in my life. But I never call or respond and that's just because I can't.

With Love,
Elizabeth <3
Jonah 2:1

Where My Brain Goes

   
     Doubt. Self doubt. Doubt about the future. Doubt about where my health is heading. Doubt about just life in general. Just doubt. It's just like anxiety, in fact it's fueled by anxiety. Your brain can start doubting something and then the anxiety takes hold of that doubt and runs with it. And trust me, anxiety runs with it fast. In the last few days I have had some disappointing news about my health. They won't confirm any diagnoses until I turn in my heart monitor in in thirty days. But they're theory is postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome (POTS for short). They also said it may not be getting any better whether it's that or something else. As it is right now, even if I am only getting one thing at the store I still have to get a cart to lean on because my legs are to weak to stand on my own. I get so short of breath just having a long conversation even if I'm sitting during the conversation.
     My cardiologist said if this continues he's not sure if I can continue working. And my work is something I take so much pride in. I don't want to lose that. I know I can't let the worry consume me because God has everything in his hands. But that's a huge life change all at once.
     The other thing I worry about is losing everyone I'm close to. I've lost friends to health problems before it's just not something they can understand. It's hard for someone on the outside to understand what I'm going through. And that's fine, I can't blame them one bit for that. But I'm terrified to lose my roommate, my friends, and especially my boyfriend. I don't have a lot of family in Nebraska and if I lose them, I'm on my own. I'm left without a support system and health issues without a support system is a whole other struggle.
     The doubt of life is getting to me. My anxiety is getting to me. My brain is a black whole that never ends, that I can never calm down or shut off together. I just don't know if I can keep going anymore. It all got so overwhelming tonight that I got in my car and just started driving, and then I almost ran out of gas. So I stopped and got weak while pumping gas so I turned around and went home and just contemplated life in the parking lot and not on the interstate. But still, even with all the doubt and anxiety I will move forward. I will take life one small step at a time.
Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

With Love,
Elizabeth <3

Asking For Help?

     Friends... I was hoping today would be the day that I could write my first completely upbeat post. But alas, today is not our day. Last night I ended up staying at my boyfriend's house. *awww, I know right* He wasn't home when I got there so I fell asleep in his bed. I don't know what time he got home but I woke up around 2:30 in tears. Sobbing. Uncontrollable ugly cry sobbing. My boyfriend didn't wake up right away but he half asleep wrapped his arms around my waist. A few seconds later he fully woke up and pulled me back into his arms as I was struggling to get out of bed so he could go back to sleep. He asked me what's wrong and it took me a minute to be able to tell him. I couldn't save that little girl from the accident a few weeks ago. And I have woken up almost every night in tears.
      My wonderful boyfriend suggested maybe I go home for a few weeks. Maybe I need to be with family for a longer period of time to help me work things out mentally. To get me in a better place. I agreed with him. I called my mom this morning to talk to her about it. It didn't go well. She told me that running from my problems isn't the answer and that if I can't handle calls like these than maybe I shouldn't be in EMS.
     I don't think anybody realizes how far down the rabbit hole I've fallen. I'm trying my very hardest to get better and be the best I could be, but it's just not working. I don't know what to do for myself anymore. I was always told never to feel ashamed for asking for help, but here I am struggling because I did just that.
     I'll get through this. I'll figure it out. We all will.

With Love,
Elizabeth

Piecing It Back Together

*Trigger Warning: Car Accidents & Thoughts of self harm*
     Well friends let's back up about a week. I was involved in a car accident about a week ago. The car in front of me on the highway rolled into a ditch. The driver had a heart attack, which is what caused the accident, and after several minutes of CPR they declared him deceased in the hospital. There was also a four year old in the backseat while all of this was happening. When the sheriffs arrived on scene they pulled the little girl out of the back seat and tried to calm her down. She was so upset. She wouldn't stop crying. After the driver was taken to the hospital I asked the officer if I could hold the little girl. i took her from him and walked over to the cop car, we watched the lights and I rubbed her back and sang "Jesus Loves Me". While holding her I did a visual assessment. Her pupils were equal and reactive, she was talking, no obvious sign of injury. She was by all standards fine. By the time the second ambulance arrived for her I had calmed her down. They decided to take her in just to be sure there was nothing wrong. The fire department allowed me to help them take vitals on her because she had started to trust me. She was stable when I left her. Nothing out of the ordinary.
     A week later the department had their critical scene debriefing and I joined in via skype. It was then that I was informed that the little girl who was holding so tightly to me at the scene had passed away in the hospital later that day. She had a brain bleed that we couldn't have caught on the scene. Unfortunately the bleed was caused by circumstances outside of the car accident. I wish there was more I could have done. I wish she could have shown me one sign that maybe that one sign could have changed our course of care. I started down that spiral that so many people in my profession start down.
     I didn't know what to do. I was beating myself up for things that I couldn't change. I know that I couldn't change anything, but there's always those what if's. What if she had shown a sign that I could have sped up her care. I found myself sitting on the floor in the kitchen with a knife wondering if maybe I'm not worth the next few breaths. I take this very seriously. I caught myself, I caught those thoughts and they scared me. I needed help. It's okay to ask for help. I booked a ticket for the next flight home. It was last minute, but it needed to happen. I couldn't be alone for the rest of the night and I knew that the people who understood me most were back in Las Vegas. So I had to go. I packed my bags and while sitting in the car getting ready to go my mom called me. She could tell something was off earlier in the day, but I didn't tell her what was wrong. She had called me to check on me. I told her I was coming home and asked if she could pick me up. She didn't believe me at first and thought I was joking, but when she realized I was serious I think she was relieved. She knew that me coming home was the best thing for me.
     Over the next few days I went on walks with my mom, I went to the fire department and was able to talk to them about how they deal with calls like these. I also got to talk to family members who have also been through things like this. Sometimes talking about things and confronting your feelings is the best way to understand yourself. They say laughter is the best medicine and I can honestly say that after three days of being home this is true. I know that I have a ways to go. That the spiral will continue if I don't keep hitting it head on. But going home helped. Asking for help was the best thing I could have done for myself. Sometimes taking time for you is what you need to help piece yourself back together.
     So the next time you catch yourself thinking things that scare you. Take time to ask for help. Ask whoever. I've found that almost everyone is willing to help if they know what's wrong.

With Love,
Elizabeth